Premature Ejaculation - Porn Addict And Masturbation Since Teenage
Mar 20, 2015
20 years old. I am still a virgin and unfortunately I have been a porn addicted my entire teenage year and masturbating for many times. I am beginning to have a relationship but I am afraid that I am suffering from PE. So many times that I get aroused when watching porn my fluids keeps coming out then I can't help it when I feel the urges to masturbate . It takes only a full minute or so after being completely aroused. I am terrified of this problem and I hope I don't have it. I am currently cutting back on all porn sites. But How can I be 100% sure that I suffer from PE and If I am, How can I treat this problem? please guide me and I hope.
One thing to mention is that when long time passes without porn or masturbation I can feel my urges stronger and I erectile easily so is this an indication that I don't have PE or that It will take small time just to recover from this issue because I fear that I will ejaculate soon after entering my girlfriend. Or It will be normal to ejaculate easily the first few times only then I will adjust to the feeling?
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Suffered from OCD / sleep phobia for many years
Currently taking seroquel & occasionally zopiclone. Also in the past taken clomipramine
Here's the problem
I'm obsessing about sex. Firstly few months ago was worried about being able to perform (get hard)
Managed to get through this, did feel very down though. Now I'm obsessing about premature ejaculation, every time I have sex it's always on my mind to the point now where I can ejaculate too quick. This is causing me horrendous depression & I feel like I'm wasting my days. See I took a clomipramine tablet the other week & this cures premature ejaculation for me but I feel a failure to take it and feel like it will eventually not work. I rationally realise I'm creating the problem but have no control to the point where the problem is created.
All I'm thinking everyday every second is about arriving to soon. My partner is supportive and thinks I haven't got a problem but I feel funny down below. I can last longer by masterbating before sex but have read this is not a long term solution. I feel so anxious and sad that life seems difficult
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1. For what conditions, other than ED, have you or are you using these medication?
2. What change(s), if any, did you notice in your sexual functioning?
3. Did you encounter any problems?
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Problem begun over recent years since I've been with my present partner (female).
We started off with a great sex life together seven years ago. She needs lots of satisfying and I used to satisfy her.
Over recent years I've found that I have started climaxing far too soon after only about 10 thrusts inside her and then afterwards my penis is extremely sensitive on the end which prevents oral sex or further touching. I soon become limp and can't get my erection back.
In order for her to enjoy our sex I now encourage her to continue with her toys after I've ejaculated too soon. It's getting to the stage now where we don't have sex very often as the satisfaction for her isn't there any more. We masturbate alone.
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I took Adderall regularly from 2011-2013 and had no ED issues, but delayed ejaculation. Since then, I've switched to a different anti-depressant medication, and when I restarted the Adderall, I had ED.
I would watch porn and masturbate for up to 30 minutes before I could get an erection. When I did, I would have some pre-ejaculate (which I never had before). Once I got an erection, because it took so much work, I didn't want to lose it! So I would put on a c*** ring and edge for up to an hour before ejaculating. Even if I only took the Adderall a few days a week, these side effects and the subsequent cycle continued daily. I've stopped the Adderall, but I still have to masturbate a flaccid penis for up to 15 minutes before it gets erect, and like before, there's eventually pre-ejeculate, I get very hard, then can masturbate normally and eventually ejaculate.
I feel like the aggressive type of masturbation I used to produce an erection when I was taking the Adderall has completely altered my penis' reaction to stimulation. Now, 15 minutes of stimulation + porn produces pre-ejaculate and then an erection. Stimulation from a partner does nothing to arouse me. I now have to go through this process to get an erection.
I've never had ED issues before, or any trouble getting an erection when masturbating or with a partner. Now, after all the aggressive masturbation caused by the Adderall-ED issues, my penis' response is so drastically different, I'm worried and don't know what to do?
Will an ED med get me back on track? Do I have to avoid masturbation and porn for an extended period of time and then my arousal cycle will return to normal? I feel like I've literally retrained my penis on how to respond to stimulation, and I need to retrain it back to normal, but not sure what to do.
Has anyone else experienced this or have suggestions?
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Hi everyone, I am 26 years male and having erectile problems for last 5-6 years.I havn't sought any treatment and avoided facing the reality till now.I had been masturbating to porn for around 12-14 years and in process trained myself to ejaculating within few minutes of physical stimulation. My abdomen gets upset when I am aroused, I feel like shiting when I am aroused and I guess this is related to my GI problems. It had come to the level that I ejaculate on physical stimulation without even fully erect. A few days back I tried to have sex with a real partner after 3 years and same thing happened I ejaculated within few minutes on hand stimulation with 60% erection. This was real embarrassing. Anyway I was not even aroused to the level I get aroused when I watch porn. Nowadays it is also believed that masturbating with porn causes erectile dysfunction. In background of this thing I have had quite stressful life for last ten years. I could not feel any stress, fatigue or exhaustion even when the symptoms were quite prominent and would think that there was nothing wrong with me. I came to know about exhaustion a few months back. I was over training my mental and sexual health. Now I am exhausted both sexually and mentally so I took a break for a few months. Now I want to heal myself. I feel attracted towards curvy females but I don't think it is sexually. Please help me guys how should I go about this problem. I can't keep it like that because I know I will masturbate to porn even if the problem is not solved.
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Is masturbating and watching porn make my health in danger? i also didn't do these thing because religion matter .
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i m fairly fit ...24 age..i use to masterbate alot watching porn..like 7 or 8 times...even now still i can masterbate this much times..but with my gf i cant get hard without stimulation..i had sex with her but sometimes i was not even able to maintain erection..and when i maintained i was in hurry as i was scared of losing the erection..i lasted mainly for 7 or 8 minutes...if i am alone i have strong desire to have sex so i watch porn get hard and masterbate..i can do it all day..i do get morning erections..no problem..and till now i used to live under so much stress...so may b masterbation and stress have something to do with my erectile disfunction..i really love my gf and she loves me too..she is very cooperative plz suggest me what should i do..and i can say that i m not stressed now..or maybe don't know that i am stressed.
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im 23 years Old ,,, i have been masturbating from last 8 years ... but from last 3 years i masturbated daily once or more times but not more than 4 times,.... most of the times i masturbated while watching porn.... ,,,,
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I started out watching porn and masturbating when I was 10 or 11 years old. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 15. The first time we tried to have sex I couldn't get an erection sufficient enough for penetration. The times after that we tried to have sex and I got a weak erection, but managed to penetrate her. I got pretty hard when I was inside but it quickly goes away when I'm not inside her. I realize what the porn and masturbation has done to me all these years so I'm unable to perform in real life situations. After reading many people in similar situations as me, I've decided to give up porn/masturbation forever to be able to perform in real situations with real girls. Summer is coming up when I will be able to go to my girlfriend's house in a little less than two months. I've installed porn blockers and stopped masturbating since about four or five days ago. I feel absolutely no urge to watch porn or masturabte. Do you think I will be healed? I hate living like this and want this to be over with. If you have any questions, just ask.
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i've been taking tramadol for 7 months...realizing now that i want to stop taking it I can't! Terrible terrible sweats, upset stomach and so many tears. Any advice?
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About half a year ago I was masturbating and when I came I tried to hold it in to make the orgasm last longer. I ended up getting bad stomach pains, my stomach started heaving a few times and I felt sick for a few minutes. Since then I was unable to ejaculate fully without feeling sick. This went on for a couple of months where I kind of stopped myself ejaculating properly. During this time I visited my girlfriend in a different state...and I felt very anxious when ejaculating. There was even one point where my stomach started to heave when the tip of my penis was touched.
However when I got back I decided to just cum for real and just see what happened...eventually my stomach got used to it and I was ok and could cum normally. All was fine until last night when I came and the same thing happened again with my stomach and I felt ill for a couple of minutes after and my stomach hurt. I masturbated again tonight and the same thing happened. It's hard to explain but it's just this weird feeling in my stomach where I feel sick and faint whilst I'm cumming. Afterwards I feel fine.
I think most of it is physiological because I am such a bad hypochondriac and I do get anxious at the most stupid times. I looked up on google for anything it might be and there's nothing. Nothing to do with the prostate or anything...which I guess is a relief. But it's still an odd thing to have. Does anyone else get this way? Were you ever diagnosed with something or was it just something you just ignored and got better?
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I'm a 14 year old male i started masturbating 1 year ago and i haven't hit puberty i'm starting puberty because the hair is starting to grow down there i have never had sex with anyone only masturbation it started about a month ago when i ejaculated i got a weird feeling in my chest and face area also i get a dull sharp down the shaft of my penis I'M scared i found out u cant get an std from masturbation but i cant talk to my parents about it i want to know is it just puberty I DON'T HAVE SPERM.
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Don't Tell Me There is no links between masturbation or ejaculation and acne,i said that acne is not caused by masturbation but masturbation make it worse and i experience this. i had acne but no more than 6 pimples ok but everytime i masturbate it became 14 pimples or more than that, remember every time for more than 3 years, and just yesterday i had a clear skin and just few pimples "2 or 3" and today when i masturbate i get more than 15 pimples and oily skin and it take 5 or 6 days to get a healthy skin again, and there are some people said there is no link its crazy crazy crazy if there are no links why people always said in forums and networks that masturbation cause them acne if its not why they said that why. so for me i experience this for more than 3 years and the same thing happened every time i masturbate i need solution and please don"t say that there is no link between acne and ejaculation or masturbation ): please i need solutions please i spent more than 7000 dollars on acne products but no result.
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I have a strange problem. I have vertigo-like head spinning on or after ejaculation after I masturbate. Sometimes it will be just before ejaculation. This does not happen when I have sex. It also does not happen all the times, but most of the times it does. The spinning settles down in 2-5 minutes. I have a normal systolic BP, but diastolic remains above 85 with pulse rate in the 85s-90s. Taking Vertigo medicines beforehand does not prevent the spinning though. Two times I had this spinning - once while watching TV and once while working at office. In all the cases, there is ringing in the ears and if I open my eyes, the room spins around, which slowly converts into swaying and then normalize. Does anyone have such a strange problem? What could be the reason?
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I am already 62 and still feel the urge to play with my "equipment" (just to test its erection) but not all the way to ejaculate. The actual ejaculation may only come once or twice in a month and I am wondering if any of you has similar experience and anyone with medical knowledge could also give advice on possible harmfulness.
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I'm a teenager. as a result of porn addiction, daily ejaculation became a habit for me. what i'm concerned is that, are there effects on my health if i ejaculate daily? will i get sex related diseases?
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As the title says, I do not masturbate. I'm 18 soon to be 19 and I just don't want to do it myself. I wanted to know if there are any adverse affects I may come across by not masturbating. I am sexually active though, which brings me to my next question. Is it bad to hold in ejaculation when I've reach my orgasm? I don't mean that I grab my penis and stop the flow of sperm, I mean that I hold it in in the same manner that you would hold in urine. For me, holding it in makes the feeling of pleasure last longer. I don't hold it in indefinitely because I can't, and eventually after a few moments I ejaculate anyways, but I wanted to know if holding it in has any side-effects.
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Am 25 years old and now acnes are apprearing on my face. Since I did not have acne during my teenager i thought i avoided it successfully. Am hating it now. What should i do?
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I've been going online to try and find an answer to why I have been feeling how I do, depressed for a week or so then hyper for a few days and then depressed again and the most accurate reason for this that keeps popping up is cyclothymia. The websites all say to speak to your gp to get help with a diagnosis and medicines etc. I'm 16 so patient confidentiality applies but the problem is I don't want my mum to find out and she is friends with my gp so would be told by her. But I want help as it is affecting my school and social life. What do I do?
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My boyfriend and I have had sex a couple time using protection except for the very first time he pulled out before ejaculation. My periods are never late and I'm 2 days late now could my period be late because of intercourse for the first time
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