A month ago I had a circumcision op done but since then it seems I have lost the length of my penis and can't get an erection of late. Has anyone gone through this or has solution to my problem.
View 1 RepliesSo, I went to see my urologist last month and he noticed that my foreskin became tighter. It has always been tight, since I was born, and I'm incapable of retracting it when erect. Whilst flaccid, I don't have any problem. But he said that, sooner or later, I won't even be able to do it at all.
I'm not afraid of the operation. In fact, I think it will be for the best.
What I want to ask is about the outcome of getting my foreskin removed. Until now, with my glans covered, sexual stimulation is practically null, whether vaginal or oral. My penis feels and looks almost like a finger, actually, and I'm not kidding. I was wondering if getting circumcised will indeed improve my sexual life.
Here are some issues regarding my penis that haunted me since forever:-
I'm generally scared of intimacy, because I'm so self-conscious about my penis: it looks kind of weird, strange, different from the other's, with that extra piece of skin. That makes me feel so very anxious, which commonly keeps me from having a full hard erection. (That's also where most of my performance anxiety in bed comes from).
Maybe getting rid of my foreskin will not only boost my confidence and self-esteem, but also help me to achieve faster, easier and harder erections: besides the psychological factors, there are plenty of nerve terminals in the penis' head, which remain inevitably unstimulated during sex due to the interference of the foreskin. Having the glans totally exposed, I guess, will make arousal not only possible but also more enjoyable. Correct me if I'm wrong.
People, I'll appreciate so much your input on this matter. It's so important to me to finally have a full and rich sexual life, just like it is for everyone else. In short: will circumcision boost my self-esteem and self-confidence (since I won't feel "deformed" anymore when naked), and will it contribute to feel more stimulation and, therefore, better erections?
I have been Circumcised about 9 days ago and i still get hard erections, so can that deepens my stitches?
View 6 Replieswhen you got an erection for the first few day how did it feel? was it you penis that was painful or your foreskin a bit tightening that hurt.
when you pee during those first few days how was it? did you feel you could only pee out of a little hole little than more than you usually could.
i am 19 years old and had my first real experience with a woman last week , she tried to give me a blowjob but absolutely nothing was happening, she rubbed my penis up and down and tried sucking it however when she did this i didn't get aroused and it only got semi hard if i stimulated myself in one area on my penis just below the glans and turning my penis to the right. and the moment i stopped stimulated that area my semi erection goes. Please be aware that i have never had an erection that points straight or upwards, it always is down nearly almost straight.
This is the only way i can masturbate, it seems as though all sensations have been lost in my penis and i cant get aroused by anyone and only masturbate in a weird way which hardly gives me any pleasure.
The woman thought there was to something wrong with my penis.
i really think my circumciser has ruined my life.
I'm a 6"3 26 year old male, no notable health problems.
However when I get erections the whole penis become fully erect apart from the very base. The base is very weak so under the weight of the erection it hangs at about 40 degrees. I am able to have sex with no problems but girls have commented that it seems unusual and perhaps feels a little different because it doesn't naturally point upwards.
Is there anything a doctor could for me to perhaps strengthen the base so that I can achieve a full pointing upwards erection?
when I get erections they seem to be soft or very easy to squeeze lets say, especially when I stand instead of pointing up and solid it points more straight out and not as firm. they are not what they use to be no matter how turned on I get, and because of that I don't crave sex like a young male should. im good health im 27
I don't know if hemorrhoids can affect it I have had them before. I also don't know if this has any connections, but I had a wet dream one night I could feel myself orgasm, however I was laying on my stomach basically flatting my penis, could do have damaged the shaft? I went to a urologist and they said everything seemed ok, gave me Cialis samples and Viagra samples' but I did not continue them I did not like how they made me feel very groggy and eyes tired.
any suggestions is very helpful. thanks! I am determined to find a reason to this.
I masterbate and have sex daily after my penis get hard but the erections are weak and it's doesnt get as hard as it use to. An after I bust the first nut after sex my penis get weak a lemp . How can I get things back to normal
View 1 RepliesExperiencing with Meth, I find I can't get a hard on, even with hours and hours of foreplay my lil friend gets hard as soon as we get down to business he goes all limp, I tried counteracting with weed sometimes it works other times it doesn't
Has anyone found or have any other remedies?
I'm soon to be 19 in a few days. Ever since starting college last fall, maybe about 6 months ago, my erections started getting less stiff - to which now they only ever get about half, sometimes three quarters as hard. I cum a lot quicker as well, albeit without really feeling much pleasure when I rub myself.. I used to get really hard ever since I had erections, sometimes lasting long whiles back in highschool.
I'm still a virgin. I haven't really had any girlfriends here in college, I'm quite shy if this plays into it at all. I also have a roommate, so I just do my "business" in the bathroom or shower, since I don't have privacy in my room like I did back at home. And even when I returned home for break for 4 weeks, or just occasional weekends, I still wouldn't get as hard as I did before college, nothing would change. I don't even get as excited as I once did in public when I see really attractive girls and such either. This has me having crazy stress and anxiety right now, making all my college stress worse.. I questioned if college stress could be a cause, but figured I've also been stressed in high school before and never had this issue.
It gives me a total lack of confidence, and I'm not sure what I'd do if I managed to meet a girl here and I had to explain this. I eat just well, always trying to have a banana sometimes, special K cereal every morning along with waffles, sandwich or such for lunch and soup and turkey/potatoes or a burger for dinner. I always drink water. Occasionally I'll drink milk for breakfast. I've never smoked, I don't do drugs. I've taken vitamins and antihistamines for allergies, but have stopped those almost a month ago with still no change. Please help with any possible answers.
I have tried viagra but with no success. Can't seem to get enough blood flow to the penis. Can anyone give me some good feedback on my situation. Erection won't last but a few seconds then goes away.
View 1 RepliesIs there any other way around a circumcision?
View 1 RepliesI have noticed that in the area from a few mm below my circumsision to below my head on the left side there is a bulge. This bulge is a rounded area. The colour is a little lighter at the point which comes out furthest from the rest of my penis. It does not always occur, and can be removed by squeezing the enlarged circular area. When erect it appears normal. I tried pe stretching a few months ago and did feel a sharp pain, then I stopped. I am unsure if it correlated to that. I can not remember exactly when it began. It is not painful. And has been occuring for months. I mastubate once daily. Thank you for your time. 15 male white
View 1 RepliesIs it possible for the doctor not to trim the foreskin after a plastibell circumcision and let the foreskin fall off with the ring?
View 1 RepliesI don't know who will see this but i need to know: I was given a Circumcision and afterwards I was given something called Instillagel, I want to know what it is and how I use it. Someone explain please?
View 1 RepliesI am 19 years old and i had a circumcision due to phimosis 9 days ago.
Some of the stitches are gone and it is not so swollen anymore. I still can't masturbate of course as it hurts.
I got an erection today. I was not fully erected but still.... When i got the erection I saw that my penis was really smaller than it used to be.. I measured it and I found it was 10 cm... Before circumcision I was 16.5 cm.
Will my penis return to its normal size over the time? (6 weeks after the operation) Have something went wrong? Could this be because I am still swollen down there and because I can't get fully erected due to the stitches?
i used to masturbate a lot even after marriage. It helps me not to cheat on my wife because she often comes home tired an just wants to sleep. Now that i have done circumcision it's very difficult for me to masturbate since i dont have the foreskin. i have tried but it hurts and kind of impossible. how best can i continue with my habit after circumcision
View 2 RepliesWell I'm 23 and have had this problem for as long as I can remember. I finally went to the doctors and was forwarded to the hospital this week. Seen the doctor there and have been told the best way forward is to have an Circumcision! Now this seems the best way forward as i can't even pull my foreskin back. But since google-ing this topic I have read some really horror stories on Circumcision. I'm from the UK and it's not a very common thing to have done. I really need some advice as to go forward with this as i have the op in 4 weeks on the NHS free.
View 1 RepliesRecently i watched a video regarding this circumcision. In that the doctor's itself handing the penis like anything. And now i had about that circumcision is painful.
View 4 RepliesCan the skin on the testicles be removed just like circumcision where the skin covering the glans is removed.
View 3 RepliesI'm 15 years old and I was told I was circumcised by my parents and I searched and found out that I had something called a loose circumcision which is really embarrassing in my opinion. It honestly looks like i'm not circumcised because there's some extra skin but the skin stops like a few millimeters before my head. I can't retract this skin permanently it just goes back to it's normal position. Is there anyway I can stop this from happening? Also is this still considered foreskin? and also does masturbating affect this in anyway? Any info, experiences, fixes, techniques would be honestly save me as I'm getting a bit depressed from the look of my penis.
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