Everytime i masturbate through clitoral stimulation i bleed. It's not a lot. But i'm worried because i don't know what it is wrong with me. I've been on depo for almost two years could that be the cause?
View 1 RepliesI'm sexually active with my boyfriend who we lost our virginities to. I haven't had another sexual partner and I'm on the depo shot and checked for STDs before each shot. But when I masturbate lately I've noticed I bleed I only rub myself above my clothes. Tonight when I got up I bled very heavily with abdominal pain which has never happened. And I don't start my period until the end of the month. This happens nearly everytime I masturbate just not as heavy bleeding.
View 1 Repliesok so a day ago i ended my period. today i masturbated again whatever. but i only masturbate with my clitoris. after i climaxed however i noticed something wet. it could have been my semen but i usually don't orgasm every time. so i look down and there is a pool of blood. it was everywhere i know its gross. im seriously concerned because i am still a virgin.
View 1 RepliesOkay so I'm 18, i lost my V card when i was 15 and well i don't know how to put this but for like the past 2 years every time i have intercourse i bleed and have symptoms of UTI like having to pee every 5 seconds and when i do it trickles, and not being able to hold it, i went to the doctor and they tested me for uti and it came back negative. But i figured it could be tearing, what really worries me is when i masturbate, when i masturbate i just use my vibrator on the clit till orgasm, but every time i do i bleed and it's not like i'm on my period bleeding it's more like spotting and its not bright red more like a red with a hint of brown but u can still see its red, and i have short nails so there's no possible way i could have scratched something. I would go to my doctor but that's like a 2 hour drive, and this has happening for about 2 years.
View 1 RepliesI'm 17 years old and when i orgasm by clitoral stimulation i bleed from my vagina, the blood is bright red in colour. I'm a virgin so i'm worried that my hymen may have gotten damaged or broken.
View 5 RepliesI am not a virgin and when I have sex I dont bleed. BUT when i use a vibrator only on my clit I will bleed after an orgasm. I am not going to a doctor about this and don't have anyone to talk to since I find this to be embarrassing.
View 1 RepliesI had my first ever depot shot on Nov 20th 2014 I was fine for the first week than I got my period and it hasn't stopped since. after the 12 weeks I decided not to get my seconded shot hoping this would stop the bleeding because it is driving me insane but the bleeding continued heavy enough to go through 2 pads or tampons a day it is now the 14th of March 2015 and no change I am going insane my boyfriend has been great about the whole thing but I can tell he's not as happy anymore I'm getting more stressed and depressed because of it I need help / advice can anyone share any advice for me?? Any natural remedies anything that could help ?
View 2 RepliesI have gotten the Depo Shot Birth Control last month and didn't get my menstrual period last month.But a few days ago,I started to bleed not a lot.When I urinate or wipe there is Blood.Should I worry about it? or is it from not getting it last month?
View 1 RepliesIn January I decided to be put on birth control because my boyfriend at the time didnt want any babies or anything of that sort. I had a horrible time with the depo shot with continuous spotting through the 3 months. It was finally the end of march when my shot was supposed to be up and I did not want another dose. Well it is now the end of july and i have been bleeding every day since. Its not a lot but it really is annoying and i am starting to get worried. I am also terrified of doctors so that is my last resort. Did any one else have this problem? Will it eventually stop?
View 1 RepliesI've had 2 depo shots and stopped last month. I've been constantly bleeding for the entire time i've been on it and after. Ive read similar post about women bleeding almost a entire year after stopping the shots. I switched to the shot after bleeding constantly for 2 years on the implanon implant in my arm. Do you know of any natural pills i can take to even my hormones out and balance my body back to normal. I do not want to put anymore hormones like other birth controls in my body. I don't want to bleed any more and i'd rather i never used any type of bc ever! I tried the IUD and that made me get constant barlothian cyst that was pain n my vajayjay! Someone please help me. ive done a bunch of google searches and cant seem to find anything to take. i seen something about agnus castus to naturally restore hormonal balance... but problem with that is most ppl use it to get their period back not to stop from bleeding... so i don't know what to turn to. I was always the type of person to never want to use BC bcuz i didnt like putting foreign things n my body..until i got pregnant with my 2 boys within 2 years.. so i used BC after i had my last son n march 2012. And i was right .. this BC stuff has messed my life up. My husband is irritated bcuz im not wanting sex any more and i used to love love like A LOT. Now im too tired all the time and not in the mood.. so i decided to rule out ALL FORMS OF BC PERIOD. i want my old body back. I don't even get wet like i used to.. i cant believe i have to use lube and im only 24!I used to b so wet like all the time for no damn reason.. SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME WITH SOMETHING TO DO!! The blood is ill smelling and sometimes brown and old blood.I have no STD's at all. Been checked twice in 4 month period.
View 4 RepliesOkay so I was on the depo shot since feb. Of last year (2013). I've been getting it every three months. Well I was suppose to get it on feb. 28 but I decided to stop. I was bleeding lightly before I was suppose to get the shot. After the day I didn't get it my period got heavier and now it hasn't stop. Is it normal or should I be concerned?
View 1 RepliesOkay so I'm 20 years old and been on depo for 5 years. I'll usually start spotting a bit a couple days before my next shot is due, I think they said that's normal because it's wearing off. Well my next shot isn't due for about 17 days and I bled a little the other day but it stopped right away. Well today I went to use the bathroom and it looked like I was on my period baaaad (ruined my white VS undies too ) so any ideas of why this is or what I should do?
View 2 RepliesDon't judge, & if you are keep your fingers to yourself.
I got my first depo shot on January 11th 2013!
I had unprotected sex On February 1st..I'm 19 btw.
Then on February 27th I had some red spotting the next day dark brown and ever since I've been bleeding/spotting non stop red and dark brown sometimes tan...but when it's brown and its during the day and I don't need to pee at that time so when it sits there where the dik goes in (pardon me) it burns that's happened only a few times && today is May 11th 2013 and I'm still bleeding/ spotting...I'm so confused...but this depo shot is WACK. I don't recommend it to anyone!! And I was supposed to get my shot on April 4th..but hell no that did not happen.
I got the depo shot about 2 months ago in juvenile, it was injected into my fat around my stomach soon after i began bleeding spotting daily .. about a week ago i had sex and my partner ejaculated inside me , and now i've stopped bleeding . but why?
View 1 RepliesJust wanted to get as many details in so hopefully someone can help me! I'm 18 and I've been having sex for two years now and still don't enjoy it. Its very uncomfortable and can be extremely painful sometimes. Before having sex I used to enjoy being fingered but even that just isn't pleasurable anymore. I've never really had a guy try oral sex on me so i cant really say whether i enjoy that. I realise that some women don't enjoy sex but most women in this situation do enjoy clitoral stimulation. There has been two occasions when this has been the case for me and it was amazing but both times we had to stop as we weren't exactly in the most private situations and i was getting a little loud. Other than these two times, which were both with different men who i had hardly any emotional connections to clitoral stimulation just feels like being touched anywhere else on my body. I've never been able to orgasm, not even with masturbation. I also don't have any trouble getting wet before sex. I'm with a really great guy at the moment who really wants to help, but i just don't know what to do. Is there anything we can do? is this going to be permanent?
View 2 RepliesFor as long as I can remember I have sexually stimulated myself by using the heel of my foot... it was only on my clitoris. I simply would sit "Indian style" and I would just rub the heel of my foot over my clitoris until I reached orgasm. I did it this way because it was quick and easy to me. It usually only takes me 1-2 minutes. But a part of me wonders if what I am reaching is a real orgasm. I am never wet during it. Anyway, my problem is.. I am 20 and my partner of 2 years is 40. When I am touched in any other way that isn't the way I know, I can't orgasm. We have been together for 2 years and he still can't make me finish.. I know it bothers him, he says it makes him feel like less of a man and has never in his life had that problem before. I am worried that from doing it for so long, 8 years or so, the way I have been.. I have desensitized my clitoris and now I don't know how to orgasm any other way. I have tried to do it on my own multiple times... Every time I am completely aroused and I feel like I am almost about to orgasm.. I can't. The feeling continues but I get stuck at the point of almost orgasming and it is the most uncomfortable feeling that I always have to say, "Stop, I'm done" Because the discomfort becomes unbearable. I just want to know what I should do from here.. if my clitoris is actually desensitized.
View 2 RepliesI find my energy changes dramatically whereby I can't focus on little things, I adopt an immature attitude to everything in general, and it's as if I am so much more turned on AFTER climaxing than I am beforehand. It is unpleasant to feel unbalanced like this just because of orgasming and I spend the majority of my sexual interest time trying NOT to climax because of how awful I feel afterwards, the actual climax is enjoyable but its the post climax destruction in my life that I have trouble with dealing with emotionally and physically afterwards. Example; this week I have had three near miss car accidents, hit my head and beien cut, fined for texting in the car, and the list goes on....I would consider a clitoral circumcision if only the procedure was legal that is what brought me to this topic searching for clitoral operation?
why isn't it talked about by other woman? I have been aware of this all my life and have tried to refrain from having orgasms just so I don't create the tidal wave afterwards. Is this why the African girls are circumcised at an early age, do they know something that we don't?
I had had a lot of trouble orgasming.
One thing I have tried is holding a vibrator on my clitoris. This causes my legs to shake like crazy and I feel like I'm going to scream. It isn't painful, it just feels so strong, and I end up feeling overwhelmed, and pulling it away. I kinda worry I might lose control with screaming and moaning. What I wonder is what would be likely to happen if I continued? Would it lead to a massive orgasm? Or could it do damage to my clitoris?
If I hold the vibrator near my clitoris, such as on my labia or clitoral hood, it just isn't satisfying enough, if I leave it there for ages then it feels kinda good, but it doesn't really lead to any kind of build up, and I want it to be more intense. After about 10 - 15 minutes, my labia just feel numb and uncomfortable.
If it would likely lead to an orgasm to keep it on my clitoris and not pull it away, I wonder if i should use a strap on vibrator or clit-pump with vibrator so that I can keep it on and keep my hands away from it?
Or, what should I do? I'm really frustrated and I really want to be able to have orgasms, particularly given that I will eventually want to be able to enjoy sexual relationships without having to worry that I cannot orgasm.
I'm 25 by the way, a virgin.
How can I orgasim from anal masturbation only. I'm a male
View 3 RepliesI went on the depo shot 2 months after I had my son because my husband and I didn't want any more children right now but I had my son in June and he passed away in october I to only had one depo shot in August was do for my second one in November and I also am trying to have another baby it's now April and I just got my first period after my shot...
View 14 RepliesAfter I had my little boy 3 months ago my husband and I had some fun before my 4 week check up. We were careful but mistakes happen and at my four week check up after baby and without doing a pregnancy test they gave me my depo. Now I have not started my period which maybe normal for some but not for me. I am getting worried about it. I am getting a rounded stomach and having cravings and food aversions.
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