Sexual Stimulation :: Botched Circumcision - No Erections
Aug 23, 2013
i am 19 years old and had my first real experience with a woman last week , she tried to give me a blowjob but absolutely nothing was happening, she rubbed my penis up and down and tried sucking it however when she did this i didn't get aroused and it only got semi hard if i stimulated myself in one area on my penis just below the glans and turning my penis to the right. and the moment i stopped stimulated that area my semi erection goes. Please be aware that i have never had an erection that points straight or upwards, it always is down nearly almost straight.
This is the only way i can masturbate, it seems as though all sensations have been lost in my penis and i cant get aroused by anyone and only masturbate in a weird way which hardly gives me any pleasure.
The woman thought there was to something wrong with my penis.
i really think my circumciser has ruined my life.
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I can't find much on my problem, but I believe my penis has two abnormalities. One is a small flap of skin on top of my penis that is connecting the edge of the head to the shaft. The other is on the bottom side about 3/4 of the way up the shaft, and it is a ~1 inch to 1.5 inch stretch of skin hanging down about a 3/8 inch, and looks similar to the texture of the skin on the scrotum, and the end towards the head of my penis is connected to the bottom of the head, in a little short flap hanging straight down. I hope my explanation made it clear what I was talking about, and I'm just trying to see if it really is a botched circumcision.
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I have a hard time not getting an erection in class. :-( It happens when I am in just about every class. However it happens when i am not thinking about sex or girls.(im straight) Then when it happens i have a hard time hiding it.
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can masturbation cause more frequent erections?
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So, I went to see my urologist last month and he noticed that my foreskin became tighter. It has always been tight, since I was born, and I'm incapable of retracting it when erect. Whilst flaccid, I don't have any problem. But he said that, sooner or later, I won't even be able to do it at all.
I'm not afraid of the operation. In fact, I think it will be for the best.
What I want to ask is about the outcome of getting my foreskin removed. Until now, with my glans covered, sexual stimulation is practically null, whether vaginal or oral. My penis feels and looks almost like a finger, actually, and I'm not kidding. I was wondering if getting circumcised will indeed improve my sexual life.
Here are some issues regarding my penis that haunted me since forever:-
I'm generally scared of intimacy, because I'm so self-conscious about my penis: it looks kind of weird, strange, different from the other's, with that extra piece of skin. That makes me feel so very anxious, which commonly keeps me from having a full hard erection. (That's also where most of my performance anxiety in bed comes from).
Maybe getting rid of my foreskin will not only boost my confidence and self-esteem, but also help me to achieve faster, easier and harder erections: besides the psychological factors, there are plenty of nerve terminals in the penis' head, which remain inevitably unstimulated during sex due to the interference of the foreskin. Having the glans totally exposed, I guess, will make arousal not only possible but also more enjoyable. Correct me if I'm wrong.
People, I'll appreciate so much your input on this matter. It's so important to me to finally have a full and rich sexual life, just like it is for everyone else. In short: will circumcision boost my self-esteem and self-confidence (since I won't feel "deformed" anymore when naked), and will it contribute to feel more stimulation and, therefore, better erections?
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I have been Circumcised about 9 days ago and i still get hard erections, so can that deepens my stitches?
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when you got an erection for the first few day how did it feel? was it you penis that was painful or your foreskin a bit tightening that hurt.
when you pee during those first few days how was it? did you feel you could only pee out of a little hole little than more than you usually could.
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A month ago I had a circumcision op done but since then it seems I have lost the length of my penis and can't get an erection of late. Has anyone gone through this or has solution to my problem.
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I just started dating a woman and we have been having sex daily for the last month. Well, about 3 days ago, I started getting symptoms of hemorrhoids, not too big, but painful nonetheless. We were getting into it, and it seems that I can become erect but it doesn't last long b/c of the pain in my rectum. It has happened on 2 different occasions now, and it's becoming very frustrating. I have had hemorrhoids before, but not with a sexual relationship going at the sametime. And again, I have had the erection go down, but due to stress and other things on my mind. So my question is, What's going on, why am I losing my erection when 3 weeks ago I was erect and still erect long after orgasm?
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I'm 16 I masterbating since 13 or14 once a day most days stopped recently in the summer , I do it the odd time but cos my erections have soft or hardly get them now I just started getting them in the morning again but they r soft ish is this a mind thing.
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can anyone help me find a doctor to cure my problem with soft erections at times. I need to satisfy my wife like I use to I love her and don't want to lose her cause I would lose my children to visitations. I need viagra or a urologist to fix me, I caught something from a stripper from Barrie, and went to get swabbed for it since it was itchy the morning after her. The swab came back as negative to STD's. SO why were these symptoms occurring, I went and got three more uncomfortable swabs and all returned negative. I get flare ups 2 to 3 times a year and my flare ups always comes with redness around a part of the shaft that gets itchy and at the tip but sometimes I get 2 or 3 tiny blister type bumps that are itchy and when I squeeze my main thick vein and roll it around with my fingers I'am relieving more itch. Now I've had 3 swabs and all came back with no std's and this stripper girl was 15 years ago and its now affecting the hardness and sensation which I feel makes it softer, when it goes in its usually hard but not like it use to be I discharge less from orgasims.
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I am 16, male, and I used to masturbate 1-2 times a day, sometimes more, sometimes less. Recently, however, my erection has been very weak, weak enough that masturbation isn't really pleasurable anymore. I think that my over-masturbation may be causing it, and if this is the case, will I get a full erection if I quit masturbating for a few weeks?
Some other information which may be helpful is that about 6 months ago I took a blood test check-up and they told me I had slightly high cholesterol. However, until about 3 days ago I could still get a full erection, and recently I actually started exercising more than I used to.
Do you think that I can get my full erection back by quitting masturbating, or do I maybe just need to eat healthier? Or maybe it is a psychological reason? I don't know, which is why I'm asking, because these weak erections are extremely frustrating, not so much because I feel the urge to continue masturbating, but because EVENTUALLY I'm going to want to have sex, and with this whole situation, it's really not going to happen.
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I've been having the same problem for months now. I went from having rock hard erections every day (and usually throughout the day) to barely being able to get erection. Sometimes not at all. I used just have a single thought and I was hard in 10 seconds.
It all happened about 6 months ago. One day I had masturbated and then all the problems with my erections started. all my morning erections stopped ( I get them sometimes now but they're still soft). I don't even having erotic dreams anymore and I used to have them all the time.
I went to a Urologist twice and had all the tests, but he said couldn't detect anything wrong? I'm not fat or anything. In fact, I workout all the time and I'm only 26 years old. Have I just masturbated too much? Is there such a thing?
There have been two times however where my erections seemed to return back to normal only for a short period. One I had fell asleep in the middle of the day and woke up to find that my penis was fully erect, but then it quickly went away. The other time was in the morning When I got up, I had noticed that my erections was back to normal and stayed that way throughout most of the day, but then went back to limp again.
Those two times were months ago. and since then, it hasn't went back to normal even for a short period of time.
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I'm 15 and have been masturbating every 1-3 days for about a year and a half. I used to do it because it was fun and I enjoyed it, but now I'm dependent on it as a stress reliever.
Anyway, it's been about 4 weeks since I last masturbated = I don't think it could at any worse time because the school year is coming to an end and I'm getting really stressed out. I've tried relaxing and thinking of nothing or thinking of sex, but isn't working =( And if I play with it a little bit to get it hard, the orgasm doesn't last very long and it doesn't do much (if anything) to relieve stress.
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Okay. I have heard a lot about the G-spot.. I am really curious because I want to cum soooo hard, but I read articles and they are like G-spot this and that..But I cant find it!
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I'm a 15 year old girl and have been masturebating for the past year no and can not reach climax/orgasm and i don't know where my g spot is. My ex boyfriend would finger me all the time it was great but I don't think I ever climaxed. I have had sex but nothing really happened the first two times felt good but then it wasn't fun anymore.
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I'm fourteen and recently(for a month or so), i've been getting a wet dream every other day. This is driving me nuts and i don't get near as much sleep as i used to. Please someone tell me if there is anything i can do to at least somewhat reduce the amount of wet dreams i get. And half the time, my dream even has nothing to do with sex, i just wake up at 3 in the morning wet.... and keep wetting myself for half an hour until it finally stops and then i try to go to sleep but im scared that it'll happen again. I don't do porn, only once i saw something on youtube by accident that was porn and ejaculated... and that's when this whole thing started. I don't even masturbate either, never have, never want to.
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For sexual stimulation, I have been pressing on my bladder when it's full. I want to know if it will affect my reproductive health negatively in the future. If so, I will stop doing it.
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I'm 13 and tried to finger myself but I can't find my clitoris. Any help of how to find it
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So I was masterbating and I felt the tingling feeling and I thought I was about to cum but it didn't happen can someone help me
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I am really turned on with my girlfriend..we didn't have sex..we only make out and touch each other but not inside underpants..only outside (because she doesn't feel comf etc..)...so,when she is rubbing me i feel my penis wet and it's something like an orgasm but its not white sticky semen coming out,its something watery...when i masturbate i ejaculate normally,with orgasm and white sperm...maybe im not stimulated enough because it's outside of the underwear..
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