Sexual Health :: No Pleasure From Sex Or Clitoral Stimulation
Dec 14, 2013
Just wanted to get as many details in so hopefully someone can help me! I'm 18 and I've been having sex for two years now and still don't enjoy it. Its very uncomfortable and can be extremely painful sometimes. Before having sex I used to enjoy being fingered but even that just isn't pleasurable anymore. I've never really had a guy try oral sex on me so i cant really say whether i enjoy that. I realise that some women don't enjoy sex but most women in this situation do enjoy clitoral stimulation. There has been two occasions when this has been the case for me and it was amazing but both times we had to stop as we weren't exactly in the most private situations and i was getting a little loud. Other than these two times, which were both with different men who i had hardly any emotional connections to clitoral stimulation just feels like being touched anywhere else on my body. I've never been able to orgasm, not even with masturbation. I also don't have any trouble getting wet before sex. I'm with a really great guy at the moment who really wants to help, but i just don't know what to do. Is there anything we can do? is this going to be permanent?
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ok so a day ago i ended my period. today i masturbated again whatever. but i only masturbate with my clitoris. after i climaxed however i noticed something wet. it could have been my semen but i usually don't orgasm every time. so i look down and there is a pool of blood. it was everywhere i know its gross. im seriously concerned because i am still a virgin.
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I'm sexually active with my boyfriend who we lost our virginities to. I haven't had another sexual partner and I'm on the depo shot and checked for STDs before each shot. But when I masturbate lately I've noticed I bleed I only rub myself above my clothes. Tonight when I got up I bled very heavily with abdominal pain which has never happened. And I don't start my period until the end of the month. This happens nearly everytime I masturbate just not as heavy bleeding.
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I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I have had sex many times but I can never get pleasure from it. When he enters me at first it hurts, then it stops hurting but I can feel him moving inside me, then after a minute or two I can't feel anything. When masturbating it takes me a minute and a half to orgasm twice, so that isn't the problem. I have enough sex drive to initiate the sex, but am left disappointed and sore after he withdraws. It takes him about five minutes to cum without a condom and about an hour and a half with one. We always use lubricant and have tried various positions including girl on top and doggy but nothing seems to help. I am always left wondering how far off he is and am very thankful when its over, even five minutes is too long. I make love with him because I know he enjoys it, and making him happy is the only good bit of the whole thing. From reading various forums I know I'm not alone in this, but none of the suggestions (use more lube, watch porn beforehand, make the room romantic etc) have helped.
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Everytime i masturbate through clitoral stimulation i bleed. It's not a lot. But i'm worried because i don't know what it is wrong with me. I've been on depo for almost two years could that be the cause?
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I'm 15 and have been masturbating every 1-3 days for about a year and a half. I used to do it because it was fun and I enjoyed it, but now I'm dependent on it as a stress reliever.
Anyway, it's been about 4 weeks since I last masturbated = I don't think it could at any worse time because the school year is coming to an end and I'm getting really stressed out. I've tried relaxing and thinking of nothing or thinking of sex, but isn't working =( And if I play with it a little bit to get it hard, the orgasm doesn't last very long and it doesn't do much (if anything) to relieve stress.
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Okay. I have heard a lot about the G-spot.. I am really curious because I want to cum soooo hard, but I read articles and they are like G-spot this and that..But I cant find it!
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I'm a 15 year old girl and have been masturebating for the past year no and can not reach climax/orgasm and i don't know where my g spot is. My ex boyfriend would finger me all the time it was great but I don't think I ever climaxed. I have had sex but nothing really happened the first two times felt good but then it wasn't fun anymore.
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I'm fourteen and recently(for a month or so), i've been getting a wet dream every other day. This is driving me nuts and i don't get near as much sleep as i used to. Please someone tell me if there is anything i can do to at least somewhat reduce the amount of wet dreams i get. And half the time, my dream even has nothing to do with sex, i just wake up at 3 in the morning wet.... and keep wetting myself for half an hour until it finally stops and then i try to go to sleep but im scared that it'll happen again. I don't do porn, only once i saw something on youtube by accident that was porn and ejaculated... and that's when this whole thing started. I don't even masturbate either, never have, never want to.
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For sexual stimulation, I have been pressing on my bladder when it's full. I want to know if it will affect my reproductive health negatively in the future. If so, I will stop doing it.
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I'm 13 and tried to finger myself but I can't find my clitoris. Any help of how to find it
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So I was masterbating and I felt the tingling feeling and I thought I was about to cum but it didn't happen can someone help me
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I have a hard time not getting an erection in class. :-( It happens when I am in just about every class. However it happens when i am not thinking about sex or girls.(im straight) Then when it happens i have a hard time hiding it.
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I am really turned on with my girlfriend..we didn't have sex..we only make out and touch each other but not inside underpants..only outside (because she doesn't feel comf etc..)...so,when she is rubbing me i feel my penis wet and it's something like an orgasm but its not white sticky semen coming out,its something watery...when i masturbate i ejaculate normally,with orgasm and white sperm...maybe im not stimulated enough because it's outside of the underwear..
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I don't masturbate for maximum 2days and i end up masturbating, I really need to stop masturbating, what to do?
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If I got fingered and I'm 14 and never had sex with fingers can fix and then you feel good and turned on and you bleed a little and it kinda Burns what does that mean.?
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I am a girl and I master bate a lot. I am starting to get a little bit scared I discovered masterbation by accident I was reading a book about puberty and a girl had sent in a question about touching herself the author explained masterbation and I thought what the cr*p I'll try it, and now it has been almost a year and I still masterbate at least twice a day I am still a virgin and I plan to stay that way until I am married. I have not had any desires to have sex just to masterbate I have used my fingers a dive stick pool toy a faucet in my bath tub and the jets in my parents tub I don't know what to do as far as I am concerned telling my parents is not an option I do have an older sister who I am really close with I might be able to tell her but I don't know/
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what is disadvantages of Masturbation
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can masturbation cause more frequent erections?
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I'm 14, very worried and concerned about my penis. The Foreskin wont Retract far enough, It only reveals the tip of the glans. Its hard to pull back when erect. Also if you Pull back the foreskin a bit, There is a little Piece of Skin connecting the Foreskin to the Glans. Is there an Easy way to make my Penis normal?
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I'm a 13 yr. girl and for no reason at all I will start to feel extremly aroused I can't even pay attention in class because while I'm paying attention to the Teacher I'll suddenly wonder what color bra she's wearing or what it would feel like to be with her, my friend had a strapless dress on the other day and I was mentally cursing myself out for not getting a picture. It's like for no reason at all, just watch t.v when one of my friends pops into my mind. Ive tried masterbating though I can never make myself cum. And besides that there no place the bathrooms don't have locks and I share a room with my 17yr old brother 11yr. old sister and my dog. Me and my sister and dog all share a bed plus My cousin and his dog like to come into my room. So what should I do? I cant even look my teacher and some of my friends in the face anymore.
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