Pregnancy :: Stress Due To Abortion
Nov 11, 2015
I have recently really been going through a tough time. I found out I was pregnant last week and decided I have to go through with an abortion. I did not plan on a pregnancy hence my use of contraception which failed me. I'm 21 and still live with my parents and in school so I don't have the right time to be having a child. Not only is it the fact that I am getting an abortion (something I never thought I would have to do), but the fact that the man who has a part in this as well is no longer in my life. We just started dating maybe for 2 months, and just a few days ago I caught him lying numerous times about women which is just something I cannot handle. To top it off he has not tried to contact me either knowing that I am going through a tough time with this pregnancy.My days seem to get harder and harder and it's really weighing down on me. I really don't know what to feel or how to cope. Has anyone gone through any tough times regarding an abortion?
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I am five weeks pregnant, I did a sonogram and it was implanted in right place. I've tried to terminate it with Cytotec three doses of 4 pills of 200 mcg orally (under the tongue for 30 mins before swallow) after every 3 hours. Have experienced cramps a very little red spotting. 24 hours later, i've expelled a little bit of brown clot, and two days after another piece of clot. But no bleeding at all. Does that mean that i need to repeat the dosis, if so, should i insert it vaginally?. Or should i have another sonogram to confirm that?. This is an illegal procedure in my country, and unfortunately cannot keep the baby.
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Shs still having abdominal pain after a week of using misoprostol alone in abortion..
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My girlfriend is month pregnant,she is facing a lot of prob, as vomits comes first thing in morning,i just want to know that is there any way out to abort pregnancy without abortion.
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hi I have three week pregnancy and I want to remove it,may I use cytotec pills ....
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I m 34 yrs and I have missed my periods by 12 days and I felt I m pregnant, becoz I am experiencing nausea and the other symptoms . To confirm my doubt, I did the pregnancy test at home today morning and the result is positive.
I already have a 2 yr old baby .We want to take care of her and also I have joined my husband here in USA after 2. My husband and I agree to abort it. WHY?? Because we are not prepared for another baby as of the moment.
I don’t want to see a doctor, since I'm afraid to surgical abortion.
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I am 24yrs mum with my 2 years baby . last year on dec I had an abortion and today now my pregnancy is 5 weeks. this is my unplanned pregnancy so ,if I do abortion then does it affect my body and can cause any problem in future pregnancy? I am confused and don't know what to do .
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I have recently done abortion(I was 3 weeks pregnant) using cytotec pills , I went on my periods and had cramps but that lasted for that day I took the Cytotec medication, after that I was not on my periods and no cramp then after the Dr had told me to take Metrogyl 200 the next day after taking Cytotec pills.
I want to know if there is a need for me to go to the gynecologist?
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What if i use oxytocin orally and cytotec vaginally? Will it work? I bleed after 6 hours of taking them and pass large clots the bleeding was heavy and lasted for 5 hours then the bleed lessen. 2nd day the bleed was color brown. By third day the bleeding was totally stop. Is my abortion complete? It's been 2 weeks now and i don't have any symptoms of pregnancy. Thank you
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I just found out I was pregnant when I was 9 weeks and 1day along. I barely know the father of the child and unsure of everything. A lot of factors had made me decide to end the pregnancy. The search for cytotec ain't easy in our country . it took a very long time b4 i got the meds. it was October 2014 and I was already on my 3rd month when I took the meds. first attempt: 1 oral 1 vaginal of 200mg. the following morning I had blood in my urine and a small blood clot came out. after 2days I went to the doctor to have some checkup and found put that my pregnancy still continued. Abortion is illegal in our country so I did not tell the doctor about it . 2nd attempt: 1 oral 1 vaginal failed. 3rd attempt: 1 oral 1 vaginal still failed. then last attempt because I only got 10 pills in total: 2 oral and 2 vaginal this time also failed. but on the last attempt I was shivering. the interval in doing these procedures took days.
Still, my pregnancy did not end. And I could still feel it alive inside and moving.
Later when I was 4 months along already , we went to an abortionist that massages the stomach and abortion can occur. But I was far along the pregnancy that massaging it is no longer effective but it makes the fetus dizzy and if used with meds it can cause labor .
Took us long to buy cytotec again now only 4tabs . since its very expensive and we are short on cash sad to say. I also took other pills that are used also for abortion but in my case they are only mild and can cause dizziness with fetus.
then the procedure was 2 oral 2 vaginal. 800 mg in total..
Sadly, it still failed.
later, i knew that the cytotec i took was not strong enough . and there is this cytotec pill available in the market that is pink in color and is 500mg ..
I will be taking it 2 oral 2 vaginal . and I hope it will work now. because I made a wrong decision in doing abortion int he first place. and its too late to stop because im afraid the fetus may now have abnormalities. Now I need to continue this and I hope its gonna work.
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Can mifepristone and misoprostol remove pregnancy of four months?
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I used cytotec for a 2weeks pregnancy and after 4hrs I started having pains and later saw blood. I had little bleeding and later a little clotted blood too. after the clotted blood I felt relieved of the pain. then sometimes I will see stains of blood in my pant for some days. After some weeks I started feeling cold in my feet, feel irritated and also feeling as if something is standing in my throat but not painful but am inconvenient with it. could it be that am still pregnant or what could be happening please. And now I started having slight light brown virginal discharge. I want to know what's happening please.
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HIi hope you listen to my whole story because its life or death issue My name is Rik and my gf is marnielle , my gf had a pregnancy test before her period time with a week and it was positive the month before it she got a period but as i know its not possible for pregnancy test to show the right answer before period with more than 4 days anyway and because we are in a country where we can't have a baby or make any xrays outside marriage we decided to go for miscarriage of course we cant do the operation because its illegal here so my gf had 2 pills of Cytotec 1 MOUTH AND 1 VAGINA and after 3 hours she started to get cramps then bleeded for half day ( heavy blood and clots ) after half day it stopped with peeing blood instead of urine (sorry) we did the pregnancy test after 3 days still positive so my gf repeated it with another set of 2 pills(Vagina) and she bleeded for 1 day but with no cluts or pain or anything just normal bleeding and that was 5 days ago and since that happening she is getting some gray discharges sometimes tissues and sometimes like liquids now we did the PT again and it was positive and now we do not know if she is pregnant or just HCG we are so much stressed coz we cant visit a doctor here and we do not know what to do we are so much depressed and my gf is thinking of killing herself im watching over her whole night to make sure she is ok we are not sleeping or eating please help us we do not know since when she is pregnant or how and we do not know if she is still pregnant . the 1st 2 pills were from 12 days and we still getting positive
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I am writing this as my girlfriend and I are concerned about an abortion she had a little over 4 weeks ago. I would appreciate respectful comments and suggestions please.
When she had the abortion she was only 8 weeks pregnant, after 3 weeks we went back for a follow up appointment where they had her do a urine test. The lady came back to tell her she was fine.
The thing that is concerning us now is that her breasts seem to be growing as well as sensitive. She has not felt nausea as bad as before, but last night was pretty bad.. So there are still very obvious signs of pregnancy. Doing an at home test a few days ago, the test came back with the faintest line. Could it be possible that she is still pregnant?
If the abortion failed, she would be 12 weeks. Do pregnancy tests come back negative further along in the abortion? Is it possible that she may still be pregnant, or are her hormones still balancing out?
Should we go and get an ultrasound done just to make sure?
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On February 17th I had an appointment for the medical abortion procedure. They gave me an ultrasound and concluded that I was 8 weeks and 3 days, so I qualified for the non-invasive option. They supplied me with a pill there, 2 pills for 24 hrs later and also prescription strength ibuprofen. Things went as they did, and presumably well, at that...considering. I started bleeding within 4 hrs of taking the second set of meds... At first heavy, then tapered down. I was at most spotting after the first 2 days, and that lasted for about 10 days. I concluded myself that this was successful and the symptoms of pregnancy seemed to disappear shortly after.
This morning I called the clinic because I was concerned with not having my period arrive. It had been at least 9 weeks since the pills had been taken and I wasn't entirely clear on how long it would take due to everyone's body being different. I took a pregnancy test and it came back positive. They had me come in today in a rush, concerned that either it failed or I was pregnant with a second. I received another ultrasound and it surely came back as a failed medical abortion. I am now 17 weeks and a couple odd days. The technician seemed amazed and perplexed, as I am just an emotional mess... Contemplating all options from this point on. She said that I would be putting myself in danger if I decided to continue with the pregnancy. She also stated that it would not be fair to the child due to possible birth defects, etc. She has arranged for me to have the invasive surgery in 2 days to remove the baby and I am scared more than ever.
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The best and most foolproof way to remove stress is through laughter. Find something you enjoy, spend some time with a loved one, or walk around the block with a neighbor. People, love, and laughter always do the trick!
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