I am a 46 year old female when my hubby and I have sex I can only achieve orgasm through oral sex!!Generally it takes me 30 to 40 minutes to orgasm!! Problem is that it sometimes takes me an hour or more to get there and I feel guilty that my husband has to work so hard to get me there!! Is this normal or is there something wrong going on inside me!!
View 2 RepliesI did a dumbest thing in my life - I am from canada. I went to a massage parlor. I did cunnilingus for a max of 2 mins on masseuse vagina. And received a protected blow job. I also deep french kissed her. No sex of any kind.
Symptoms: After 4 weeks since that incident
I have lymph nodes (total 7) around my neck, 1 occipital node on left side (app 1 cm) and 2 on each sides of neck, 3 in front of neck and 1 on right back near spinal cord. All less than 1 cm.
Had mild sore throat few days ago not now. I don't think I have fever.
Had 2 canker sore. Headache couple of time.
Rashes on my neck and chest (on chest itchy)
Yesterday night sweats.
I am not sure if had any cuts or sore on my lips or mouth.
Can anyone please answer these questions.
1) what is the risk of hiv based on my exposure with tongue usage and sores in my mouth?
2) How big does lymph nodes swell in ars? Is it normal to have them around 29 days?
3) which part of neck does hiv lymph nodes swell? Along with front of my neck in regions 1a, 1b, 5 and 6 I have posterior cervical lymph node.�
4) some say cunnilingus has caused hiv in few cases
Some say it has never definitely associated with hiv infection
Which of these 2 is true? I am confused. Even ID specialist have 2 opinions
5) protected blow job and deep french kissing I assume of no risk?
I am 23yo hetero male living in Jakarta, Indonesia. I had a single protected vaginal and unprotected oral (cunnilingus and fellatio) with a 19yo with unknown status and she decided to block me totally when I inquire about her STD status, so we have no contact absolutely by now.
Day 0- protected vaginal, unprotected oral, and I 'stayed' on top of her fully naked for quite a while after we bathe
Day 14- I noticed a small pimple like thing on my penis, just below the 'ring', it hurt when I masturbated with my hand, I popped it out and blood came out, and it fully healed and within 2 days i have to pain at all
Day 15- I have sudden pain occurring inside my penis, sometimes so sudden, I involuntary move my body, this also happens to my testicles-- sudden pain and dull pain. Both of it stayed nonstop till today
Day 25- Pain in testicles and penis has not stopped (I have no discharge or I might have missed it?)
Day 26- Went for an STD check for
-HSV 1 IGG
-HSV 1 IGM (i know hsv igm is unreliable, but still tested for it)
-HSV 2 IGG
-HSV 2 IGM (i know hsv igm is unreliable, but still tested for it)
-HIV
-Chlamydia IGG (i know that blood test for chlamydia is unreliable but it is the only test available in my country, I have to fly to Singapore for a urine test)
-Chlamydia IGM
-VDRL
-TPHA
- I also did a normal urine test and everything was normal
ALL test came negative except chlamydia IGM which shows borderline. ( I have never had chlamydia in my life before, and this is only my second sexual encounter in my life). Upon knowing that I had borderline test, I immediately took 1gr of azythromycin, waited for a week, no improvement. Tried 6x500gr azy for 6 days, still no improvement.
Day 40- Noticed a pimple like bump of the side of my scrotum, bordering the scrotum and pubic region, popped it out, blood came out and it completely healed and does not hurt at all, all within 2 days
Day 42- I still have the same pain I had in day 14 (sharp pain in penis and testicles, nonstop, throughout the day), Decided to conduct another same set of STD test and all came negative except for the chlamydia igm, which, again, showed borderline.
I am really extremely depressed right now, I can't work, I can't function properly. I am really afraid of HSV 2, which In probably have, the only thing quite assuring for me right now is that dr. Hunter once state that at 6 weeks HSV is detected at around 80-90%.
I am now in a believe that I am 'immune' to azithromycin and currently on day 1 of 7 of levofloxacin and hoping it would get better.
I have visited skin and genital dr and also a urologist, in between all 43 days and both gave vague comments and suggested I do another STD test
I am extremely anxious right now, what do you think is the best solution?
i need to know whether one can have oral sex with a person with tooth decay. will this affect the vaginal tract with any infection?
View 1 RepliesI'm male 17 years old I masturbate very often and have increased recently, and after ejaculation I have this small stinging pain to the lower right of the abdomen, almost near my hip. This pain goes on and off sometimes during the day on it's own and I don't do anything to it. I do masturbate really often and after masturbating I get this discharge which I think is precum again that stains my underwear and bothers me about 5 mins after orgasm. I just wanted to confirm if this was normal or if It was dangerous.
View 4 RepliesI'm 18 and i haven't had a lot of sex I've only been with a few when I was younger... I have a new girlfriend and we have sex on a regular basis and I cum too soon... I would like to be able to have sex for a while before cumming... My problem is the sensation... I stop for a little bit and go again and I cum..
View 4 RepliesEverytime my bf rubs or sucks on my clit it feels so good. After about 5 mins of him doing it if feels like i'm having an orgasm for about 10 seconds.. Lol, but I don't cum. Is it possible to have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but not cum?
View 1 Repliesi want to know how to get rid of mastrubation
View 4 Replieshey people, i'm just noticing that when i jack off not much comes out, am i gonna have trouble having a kid later on?
View 4 RepliesMy boyfriend does not have a precum during sexual intercourse and I want to know if This is something usual.
View 14 RepliesI'm female and have recently started to have sex (21). I was wondering how you hit the G stop in a woman? Like what is the best way to do it?
View 2 RepliesI am not very sexually experienced at all. I've had two partners, my first was 5 years ago and he was my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. I have a new boyfriend now, it's weird being with someone else now but I love him to death we've been together 7 months.
I need some advice please! Guys seem so simple, they orgasm, boom they're done. Me? I don't know when I do, my previous boyfriend was always like jeez you're finishing again (I guess my female stuff would go everywhere kind of like a guy) it would happen a few times. And I'd be confused if I was done or not. But most of the time my whole body would tingle after we stopped having sex, it would feel like all my skin fell asleep and woke up and tingled lol especially in my hands and face and lips, like everything was just super weird and tingly and I'd have weird vision but feel very relaxed and my sex drive would instantly go away for about a week or a few days. Me and my first sexual partner would have sex probably a few times a week for all those years.
Same with my new relationship, but my boyfriend is very confused as I am too! His main goal is to get me to orgasm once. And he feels like crap that he can't get me to. But last time we did it I was tingly like that and my sex drive instantly went away. When a lot of the other times before I'd still not be finished but he would. We only have had sex a couple dozen times out of the like 7 months we've been together..I am getting FINALLY a lot more comfortable being intimate with him. I never thought I could date again after my long term relationship ended but I guess I am human and can finally adapt to someone new! It took me 7 months to even...touch him down there
Is that somewhat of an orgasm though? Do all women orgasm differently? I am very confused! Is the whole body tingle part of it? Meh it sort of feels like when your foot falls asleep and wakes up but it doesn't have that "ouch" feeling just that tingle all over my body for about 10 mins after.
I am fourteen and a girl and i am wondering if it is normal that i cum a lot especially around the guys that i think are hot and it is weird because i dont masterbate very often
View 1 RepliesNot only in the gym but in my own shower, I get erections very easy if I just touch my penis. Is there any way (other than masturbation) that I can, I don't know, train my penis to not get erections?
View 5 Replieswhile having sex my condom got torn before penetrating and it just touch my partner. i think a little precum must have also touched her on outside only.
can it cause her getting pregnant?
Latley when I ejaculate, my cum will be a yellowish color, but I've read that's normal because it veries from man to man but after I cum I clear sticky liquid comes out
View 11 RepliesI just wanted to ask is precum edible?
View 1 RepliesHow can I orgasim from anal masturbation only. I'm a male
View 3 RepliesI'm 25. I am sexually clean and so is my partner. We wear non latex condoms, when I wore latex condoms with my previous partner I would get horrible utis. I stopped using latex and they stopped, I figured I was allergic. My new partner is larger then my previous one, he also likes sex multiple times. This is not a problem with me other than right after sex the first time my vagina opening starts to swell. The top wall (when laying on my back) swells and is VERY painful, and will stay painful for at least a day after wards. Not to get to graphic but you can't even put a finger in. And it is only the opening if I finally get him in (usually the day after he is fine inside till he goes to pull out or push in. I've tried many positions and it still hurts. I am sure he is stretching me, but he is not tearing there's no blood after sex. Any ideas on how to stop it or heal it faster. Also lube I do not think is an issue. We tried that last time and it was still swollen.
View 2 RepliesFor as long as I can remember I have sexually stimulated myself by using the heel of my foot... it was only on my clitoris. I simply would sit "Indian style" and I would just rub the heel of my foot over my clitoris until I reached orgasm. I did it this way because it was quick and easy to me. It usually only takes me 1-2 minutes. But a part of me wonders if what I am reaching is a real orgasm. I am never wet during it. Anyway, my problem is.. I am 20 and my partner of 2 years is 40. When I am touched in any other way that isn't the way I know, I can't orgasm. We have been together for 2 years and he still can't make me finish.. I know it bothers him, he says it makes him feel like less of a man and has never in his life had that problem before. I am worried that from doing it for so long, 8 years or so, the way I have been.. I have desensitized my clitoris and now I don't know how to orgasm any other way. I have tried to do it on my own multiple times... Every time I am completely aroused and I feel like I am almost about to orgasm.. I can't. The feeling continues but I get stuck at the point of almost orgasming and it is the most uncomfortable feeling that I always have to say, "Stop, I'm done" Because the discomfort becomes unbearable. I just want to know what I should do from here.. if my clitoris is actually desensitized.
View 2 RepliesSo for the past couple of days, I've been experiencing awful dizziness after masturbating. My knees kept buckling when I went to leave my room. This has rarely happened. But yesterday was worse, as I had had very high blood sugar levels from what I was eating. After climax, I felt sick, so I sat down for a minute, then ended up vomiting a small amount (probably whatever I had eaten last) onto the blanket I was using. Not only that, but I keep getting painful screeching in my ear (I run a lot of electronics in my room, could that be part of it?) afterward, and recent bad cramping while I'm in the middle of doing it. The orgasms haven't even been stronger than usual, either. And I know some of these might be self-explanatory, but I'd at least like to know how to treat them properly. And....juuuuust in case anyone asks, I have no chance of being pregnant; I'm 13 and a virgin. Just so you know.
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