HIV :: Protected Sex, Unprotected Oral - Seroconversion
Sep 7, 2013
I know this has been asked in some form or another over the various forums, but I just had to ask myself and share my experiences and symptoms that have been raising red flags with me recently. Looking for expert analysis/advice/opinions.....
8/10 - Had protected sex with sex worker, condom stayed intact.
Gave unprotected cunnilingus to her for 5-10 min, no bleeding or sores on vagina nor on or in my mouth.
Kept my tongue around the clitoris and very entrance of vaginal opening but less than 1/4 inch inside.
She was sort of a squirter and climaxed, i accidentally swallowed a gulp of vaginal juices.
8/13 - 3 days later got a sever sore throat, lost voice, no noticeable fevers or weakness. (red flag)
8/15 - Urgent care said not strep or bacterial, probably viral, gave antiseptic gargle and said to ride it through.
8/16 - hip joints get soar, noticing mild weakness and fever-like sensation but no fever (yellow flag)
8/22 - Throat almost normal, got voice back. Saw same sex worker again but this time she had several little round bandages on her arms, neck, and back. (red flag) She said she broke out because of something she ate but i was skeptical. Had protected sex and unprotected oral for 1 minute, no swallowing of juices this time. ( I know, i'm a horny idiot)
8/24 - Had severe herpes outbreak on penis. (Had herpes 20 years, however recently with meds and vitamins the outbreaks are mild, usually one or two blisters. This time was a full blown cluster, like my immune system was busy fighting something) (red flag)
8/27 - Went to free AIDS clinic. Took finger prick HIV test, came Negative but has been only 17 days since suspected risk. Clinic said possibly HIV infection might have happened and to definitely come back every month for 5 months to test.
8/28 - Mysterious scratch on my right arm just below my shoulder, didn't injure it at all. Where'd it come from? (yellow flag)
8/29 - Scratch turned into purple crescent shaped bruise the size of a quarter. Never had that before anywhere. (red flag)
8/30 - Weird square shaped bruise on my back, but may have been from sleeping on something in the bed.
8/31 - Herpes cleared up, usual scab scars remain.
9/3 - Had unprotected intercourse with wife
9/6 - Wife getting severe sore throat, cold symptoms, similar to what I had on 8/13. (yellow flag)
Also my weight has dropped from 189 to 180 since initial incident on 8/10 (perhaps because of guilt and worrying? Or something more sinister?)
Bruise finally starting to fade but still there.
So due to my adulterous debauchery with the details and timeline given, what are my chances that i may have contracted HIV? (Definitely / Probably / Questionable / Doubtful / No Way)
Am I having symptoms of seroconversion? Or some other ailment might have befallen me?
I will be testing again next week, and again in 6 weeks. But it sucks because you have to wait so long to get a conclusive reading. I sooo don't want to spread this to anyone if I have it.
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Had unprotected oral and protected sex from an escort, no symptoms apart from a more frequent need to urinate and noticing urine dribble - could be me paying more attention to it. Slight irritation at the end of penis but think is is due to the dribble.
At about the 5/6 day mark had an STI test and all come back negative.
Should I still be worried about this or is the urine dribble most likely caused by something else?
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I am straight male in my 30's.
Today I messed up and had sex with a sex worker. The sex was 'protected' at all times - we used a condom. HOWEVER, she sucked and licked my testicles and the very base of my shaft. Sorry to get into the details, but perhaps this is important - we had short vaginal and somewhat rough anal sex. No artificial lubricant was used. I didn't inspect the condom in details afterwards, but it seemed OK.
My last shave 'down there' was 2 days ago. Now I notice that my skin is still somewhat irritated (red bumps), although I don't see any obvious cuts. There is the possibility of micro cuts, though...
Needless to say, now when the sane judgment came back to me, I have a few questions/concerns:
1. What is the major STDs I should be worried about now? It is my estimate that it is Syphilis. I am not really worried about HIV (condom didn't break) or Herpes (it is now kind of common). Genital warts - slim chance, there is a 100 strains and only a few cause the warts.
2. Assuming I have caught Syphilis, am I immediately contagious to others, or first I have to reach 1st or 2nd phase of the disease?
3. Is Syphilis contracted when it penetrates into the bloodstream (i.e. there has to be a CUT), or as soon as skin (any skin) touches the lesion. If there is no lesion whatsoever, how contagious is it still?
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I had unprotected oral sex with a CSW . what are my risks ?Do i need to test?
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what are the chances to contract Hiv with unprotected Oral sex. I'm the male receiver of the oral.
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I'm male in early 30's I have only one time unprotected oral sex with a sex worker few days ago , she kissed may penis , I ejaculated in her mouth. I did not know she have mouth ulcers or not or if she's HIV positive. After I wash my penis with water.Should i be worried or require any HIV / STD tests ? if yes then when ?
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I lived in indonesia.. last week i was exposed to one kiss from the commercial massage lady to my head of penis. is it considered oral sex? however, two days later, i am shocked there is redness in my head of penis, went to my GP and dermatologists, they said is ok . dermatologists take sample and Gp said it is only because of maybe her nail. I was so scared because if it is because her nail , then it is possible at the time my penis is bleeding.How much is my risk from her one kiss to my penis while it is bleeding? Thank you so much for the answer. i feel like killing myself as i have no one to talk to
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I am a 23 year old guy...Last night I hooked up with a prostitute...I used condom while intercourse and I did unprotected oral to her for 5 to 10 minutes..This is my first time sex experience ever..i am very much worried that i may contracted HIV...are there any possibilities for getting HIV?
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Recently hit a massive down point in my relationship, ended up receiving unprotected oral sex from an escort with protected sex after.
Since then I have been experiencing a feeling of needing to urinate and once I have been to the toilet, it feels like there is still some left.
No discharge or burning, just a slight irritation and sometimes a drop of urine after.
I am awaiting tests back and have got a injection/antibiotic booked tomorrow in the meantime.
Is it likely my anxiety is building this up or how likely is it that I have anything other than NGU?
I am so scared that it is anything serious as I'm now back with my partner and not sure what I would say or do?
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I'm a 23 year old male I've received unprotected oral 6 times total within the span of a year or less and after the 5th time my groin lymph nodes swelled up and my penis turned a weird shape for a day or 2 like it was swollen just before it makes the tip of my penis then on the bottom left hand corner of my bottom lip this bump or lump occurred swelled up for a about 30 min or so then it went away then another one came back about a month after. and I started to get what looked like acne on both of my inner thighs. Then the new year hit 2016 another lump in my lip occurred but this time on my top lip. The person I was with claims they are clean and gets tested regularly and has no symptoms. Does anyone know what this is or what it might be I've never been tested and don't have health insurance what do I do I'm freaking out constantly googling symptoms my guess is it's syphilis
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I'm female. I have a unprotected oral sex with a guy that I first met. I received and gave oral sex to him, but no ejaculation and I only licked his balls. I didn't see any cold sores around his areas. Do I need to have STDs test? If so, which tests I should take?
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About a week ago I had sex with a female sex worker in Hong Kong (I'm a man).
I had a condom on when she gave me oral, and a different one on when we had normal intercourse. We didn't kiss lip to lip, though I did kiss her skin and nipples. I *did* give her unprotected oral, and stuck my tongue inside some.
This was about a week ago. I've been a bit worried ever since then...I've only had one other partner until this encounter, I'm not normally one to take risks. How concerned should I be?
I gather that the biggest risks would be syphilis, gonorrhea, or chlamydia from the unprotected oral sex, and that HIV transmission would be extremely unlikely even if she were to be infected?
If I get tested, how long should I wait before going, and are there any possible symptoms that I should be on the lookout for? How long would any of those symptoms take to develop? And would it be possible to infect my partner with (normal lip to lip) kissing or vaginal intercourse?
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I'm very anxious, I am a male, after receiving unprotected oral sex from a female sex worker:
What is the likelihood of getting gonorrhea particularly if this female had throat/oral gonorrhea ?
My symptoms are itching penile head and a sore throat / loss of voice
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I am a gay guy and i recently had an encounter with a stranger.
We did not have anal sex we only did UNPROTECTED oral sex, he ejaculated in my mouth. He said he was clean STI/HIV free, however he had never been tested. He seemed healthy and the penis was clean.
After he ejaculated in my mouth I went home did a salt gargle and drank warm water.
The next day I woke up with a sore throat, very mild, i also had runny stool. But as soon as I forgot about how sore my throat was it went away. I was reading up on Google etc.. and it said that STI symptoms take anywhere from 2 days to months to develop and HIV can be quite a long time and you only see symptoms 3-4 weeks after exposure.
So personally I think it could be a bacterial infection, or pure anxiety, it was the second time in my life i had given oral to a man so I suppose my body isn't Used to it as well.
Its been 72 hours since the encounter the throat problem has subsided however i still have quite runny stool (not as runny as it was)
Could anxiety given me those symptoms, I was extremely worried.
I haven't had any problem on my testes or penis or in the pubic region.
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I have been very concerned about the possibility of acquiring HIV from receiving unprotected fellatio. I have not had any unprotected penetrative sex encounters, and pretty much my only exposure is receiving unprotected fellatio from other my sex partners. I have not performed oral sex on any of them. Now what if any of them was HIV positive, would I contract the virus? Do I need to test for HIV since I have received unprotected oral sex?
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Is it possible to catch STIs through oral without protection,he licked tip of my penis for a few seconds only. is Hepatitis B possible with such encounter?
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I am a man and have been married and monogamous for many years but 8 days ago I foolishly engaged in receiving oral by two men and giving oral to one of them in a men only group sex meeting. I saw no visible signs of anything on their penises. About two days after the encounter I had on and off tingling of the inside of my penis. After eight days I still have what is more like a burning and pain in my urethra and an occasional mild itching at the tip of the penis and some slight pain upon movement in my testicles. I have no pain while urinating and my urine is clear. I have no visible spots or lesions anywhere. I am constantly worried about herpes and at a loss of what to think or do. Thank you for your advise.
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About 2 weeks ago I had encounter with a younger woman who I am unaware of her HIV status. Being that I don't put anything past anyone, I'm totally freaked out about it. She wanted to have sex but I told her I didn't have a condom so she insisted on giving me oral instead. Immediately after that, I was having these weird stomach feelings. I'm not sure if it was from guilt or what, but now I am having aching knees. Last week I was stretching them so im not sure if I irritated my tendons or what but I am totally scared. I took an oraquick HIV test which came back negative.But my question is, what is my risk from catching hiv from this encounter? I have been killing myself with anxiety, depression, and stress from this and school (I am a nursing major). My nerves are bouncing through the rough. I have never had this type of stress from a sexual encounter, I just want to put it all behind me and live a healthy life. I have too much to look forward to in the future.
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6 weeks back had an unprotected oral sex with an unknown female for less than 5min,where I was the insertive partner. can I get HIV through this act. now I am suffering from a sore throat. Can u please help me with this,as I'm under too much of stress due to this act,as it was the biggest mistake of my life
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One night while my wife was at a girls night out i was drinking and got a bit drunk. I went to get more beer walking 3 blocks away. On my way a woman who looks like she was mid 30s was standing in the corner and long story short told me if i got her 2 beers she would make it my while. I went and got it and walked back to her with some beers for me. This is where i regret so much what happened. She took me by a tree and told me to take out my member and she proceeded to service me. It lasted maybe 30 seconds and was rough i then came and ran home scared. I went upstairs and peed and washed my member and put antibacterial gel and noticed a burn like a small cut on the bottom of the shaft. That was 8.days ago. That night i woke with a pain of guilt in my upper back and my urethra had a slight sting. The sting has lasted these 8 days and there was no itching. No discharge and no pain when peeing. On day 4 i had normal sex with my wife and had no pain with cumming. On day 7 my wife and i sexex 3 times and in between she also gave me a hand job there was some dry sex and this day my urethra had itched a little bit. That night my penis started itching. Today day 8 i have no discharge no pain peeing but my penis has many super tiny bumps and the skin is red and irritated it itches alot and now the tip of my penis where i pee is sensitive. It doesn't burn when i pee no discharge but i have alot of little tiny bumps that are hard to see and my penis is very itchy and sore and the urethra tip is sensitive. What could this be? I need to see the doctor i imagine? My wife says she doesn't feel any pains or stings i regret this so much i can't believe i did this i love my wife thank you for your help.i have put anti fungal creme and i took a uti test which came negative for leuk and the other one and the antifungal didn't work for a couple hours but i THINK its working now im not sure but i an itchy the bumps are tiny and firm and don't have center or fluid filled i will see how they look tomorrow
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I made the mistake last week of both giving and receiving oral sex with another male. The other male is of unknown status and was a drug user/sex worker. I received the oral for less than a minute and gave it for roughly 10, with no ejaculation on either side.
Since then, I have had slight lower abdomen pain, a sore throat and what seems like burning urine/penis tip. I am in a monogamous relationship and really don't want to pass this on and certainly don't want to ruin my relationship by bringing this up, I'd rather deal with the guilt as this was a one time thing.
My questions are...
- What are the risks of contracting HSV, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia or Syphilis? (understanding that HIV is very low, if any risk, for oral)
- Is the abdomen/pelvic pain a symptom of anything?
- If the event happened roughly 4 days ago, would I be able to test for Syphilis, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea? I am going to the clinic this evening and asked them to give me antibiotics for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea anyways just in case.
- Would there be any risk of any of these diseases infecting my throat from his penis and vice versa?
- Should I abstain from any sexual encounter with my current partner? There would be no expectation of protected sex considering we are monogamous and saying no or we need a condom would certainly raise red flags.
- Am I at risk of anything else that I can't think of?
I am very worried about this encounter and would appreciate any insight and thoughts you can provide. Mainly, if you think I am at risk from this encounter and if I should abstain from any sexual encounter with my current partner given the circumstances.
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